Gay Fairytales

Why every gay I met tell me how much he irritated with the rest of the gay community? Every gay man tells me a story about her and the man who betrayed him and wants a soul mate and true price. I do not understand it, because when there are so many gay guys who want a stable and reliable, why can not everyone get you? Every gay man told me he will be faithful and not the rest. Makes no sense, right? Is it possible that we are as deeply moved as our heterosexual brothers? God forbid.

I read a book about masculinity time. The book had a couple of chapters on the relationship between father and son. One of the things I’ll never forget was a poem by the author (called?), Who wrote her father a son. The general idea was that the son asked his father why he never said. Without feeling guilty of plagiarism, I remember something like:

Daddy, why you never said you were scared sometimes? Why did you not tell me that you sometimes do not know the answers? Why did not you show me that you are not so strong, not so smart, if not always faithful and responsible? Why you never show that you called sometimes doubt the love that would save time? Why did you never tell me that you sometimes ask your own sexuality? (I do not think it was in the book the author has the right, if I remember correctly, but if he really wanted to be sure …..)

The fact is that I really could relate this poem, do not remember much about the rest of the book but, as for all the straight guys. The poem made me really cry, yes, guys, I can cry, actually I am a genuine Cry-Baby sometimes I’m gay for the love of Pete.

Your relationship with your father, especially if you’re gay is missing, something is not it? I know this about me and I see that have in the treatment of all time, gay boys bad relationships with their fathers, and it began before the two of them clearly that “Boetie” (little brother) is gay. The book I mentioned was written by a guy on the right and is aimed at straight guys I had the impression that these guys had bad relationships with their fathers as straight. Why should it be? I mean, it’s not like you can take the old man because he was probably the same experience with his father when he was little. Maybe the people just can not deal with emotions and they get excited and act like baboons, when they get it. Yes, you say, this could be true for heterosexuals, but we “gaaiiyys” different, are we really? I know we can temper tantrums, and I know we can be bitchy, but we can deal with our emotions?

This brings me back to my original question: why do all gay guys looking for a reliable friend and yet very few receive. Is it possible that we are just as emotionally underdeveloped, that straight? Is it possible that we want a confident man, but we do not want to be one? The guy just out of paradise: Dad is fool around mummy is waiting faithfully at home. Is it possible that you get the gay boys, but you can not gay the boy from the? Somehow many of us are lying to ourselves. Perhaps, and I know I’ll hate to say this to me, people who are reliable and honest homosexuals the ones they want to screw around, they fall to allow. Just maybe they are true. And guys, if this is true, then we are in trouble, because I want to believe in the fable, the tale of Prince and Princess Pierre-Jean.

Except you for who you think screw around until you drop, most of us do not want to believe this fairy tale. You guys, to screw it to fall to let you and tell us often that we, the believers of fairy tales, a series of heterosexual family, think sorry guys up, you are copying the typical chauvinistic boys in the suburbs, not us.